No Longer Being A Victim Of The Modern Slavery

modern slavery

What’s this is THE stephane ANDRE. I watched an Olivier Roland’s video  and I learned good stuff.

Are you a victim of modern slavery ? If you have not yet asked the question, I will tell you the case of infopreneurs victims of modern slavery.

This is often what happens to people who create text, audio and video content on the internet. Imagine this case, a blogger decides to create his/her blog to build a community around a concept, idea or theme for weeks, months or years with free content. This blogger works hard to create free quality content and his/her audience grows little by little.

Fear of losing his/her community

 

fear of losing panic

After a few months or years of work, this blogger will propose something to his/her audience, it’s a paid product or a paid service. After all, all work has its merits. But for a minority of his/her community, it’s the scandal, people will make comments things like : « Actually, all you’ve done from the beginning was just to do business. You don’t care about your community, all you want is to make money, etc ».

At that moment, this minority who is scandalized by a paid product or a paid service, doesn’t realize that the message they say is : « Listen, we like you but all we want it’s that you work for us for free. We agree to continue reading your blog’s articles as long as your work for us for free until the end of your life ». The people who act like this are called supporter of slavery. But the craziest part of all this is that these people aren’t aware of this because they are not going to the end of their own reasoning. They react emotionally.

The problem is that we too often see infopreneurs let themselves be impressed by this. It’s normal to earn money to live with dignity, it’s legitimate to have this process because that is how a company works. The goal of infopreneurs is to create a company based on their passion. It’s important not to be negatively influenced by this small minority in the community.

So don’t let yourself be impressed by modern supporter of slavery. You must realize that people who complain are a tiny minority. The silent majority in your community find it normal and these people are motivated to buy your product or service. You know, the small minority who is never happy is always very noise.

You deserve that

 

you deserve it

And I have to explain something to you, it’s something you’ll only see when you sell a product or a service. There are people in your community who have been following you for months or years, and who buys what your offer simply to thank you for the good free content you have done so far.

When you have recognition like that, it’s priceless and you don’t worry more about the modern slavery’s supporters of the world. Live your passion by creating quality free and paid content because « all work has its merits » and if a person is not happy, you can share this article. It’s the same for an infopreneur who is afraid of losing a part of his/her community if he/she makes a paid product/service, share this article.

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An Extraordinary Tool To Solve All Your Problems

tool box

What’s up ? This is THE stephane ANDRE ! I watched an Olivier Roland’s video  and I learned some good stuff.

Nature has given an extraordinary tool to every human being. This tool has different performance depending on the people but it’s the best for solving problems compared to the tools invented by humans.

This tool is our brain. This tool is better than a computer because a computer needs a human to work. For now, artificial intelligence has lower performance than the human brain.

Unfortunately, many of us don’t use our brains to find solutions and solve problems that are important to us. Many of us consume a lot of distractions. The question is : « Are we asking enough questions to our brain to find solution ? ». If you don’t give problems to your brain, your brain will be less and less efficient. It’s the same principle for your body.

If you give junk food to your body all day long, you will be fat, bitter, you will not have any more energy, you will not have any more libido. Everything that will comes out of you brain will be diminished in quality and quantity. If you will give healthy food to your body all day long, you will be slim, you will have more energy, you will have a better libido. Everything that comes out of your brain will be increased in quality and quantity.

Training your brain

training brain

To improve the brain to solve problems, it’s necessary to ask questions. A question is the interface between our brain and reality. This is what will put the brain in mode : « search for solutions ». By asking questions, you will look for different angles of approach to deal with the problem. The better the question and the better the solution to the reality of the world.

To have a good quality of question, it’s necessary to learn to educate oneself with books, trainings, meeting people who share their experiences, etc. Realize that you have to dedicate time to solve problems, allows you to organize your days. It’s like dedicating a few hours in your day to play sports. There is a method that I advise you to test, it’s to have a diary.

Attention, it’s a special diary because you’ll ask yourself questions. The first thing is that you’ll tell events of your life and this will allow you to better understand them and better understand yourself. And the second thing is that you’re going to ask yourself questions. There will be general questions like: «  How can I become happier ? ». And more specific questions like : « How can I become happier with the 80/20’s law (Pareto’s principle)  from today and see a measurable result next week ? ».

With questions, you put your brain in mode : « search for solutions » and you find several ideas to test to solve the problem. It’s the human process to find a solution since first hominids. Imagine, millions years ago, first hominids already found solutions because of a constraint. Imagine this scene, a hominid finds an animal with a carapace that is dead. The hominid is hungry and seeing the animal dead, he’s even more hungry. He asks himself this question : « How can I eat this animal that I can’t eat ? ». His brain goes into mode : « search for solutions ». After a few minutes, he remembers that by tapping a stone on something, the stone become sharper. After several tests, he manages to cut the animal with a carapace that dead to eat it.

Virtuous circle

virtuous circle

This human process is a virtuous circle. You ask yourself questions to find solutions to problems. These solutions create other constraints that lead to others problems. So you have to ask yourself other questions to find a solutions. To evolve, we need challenges and there are always challenges in the world. Do you realize that millions of years ago, first hominids created tools with stones and wood and today we have internet technology ? With internet, people from distant country can read my blog’s articles 24/24 7/7, it’s incredible.

Among these questions, there will always be questions that will have different answers depending on what the situation you’re in your life. For example the question : « How can I become happier ? ». When you’re single, you have a solution. When you’re in a relationship, you have another solution and when you have children, you have another different solution. Solutions are influenced by different variants in your life and it’s important to ask yourself this question throughout your life.

Reserve some time in you day to ask yourself questions to solve problems. It’s a kind of physical activity for your brain. It’s a good process to become a better version of yourself. But beware, there are solutions that you will find quickly and others, it will be necessary to work on for months or years to find the solution.

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How To Reduce Stress (Part 1)

stress

I watched an Olivier Roland’s video  and I learned good stuff.

I am doing a synthesis of the Dale Carnegie’s book “How to stop worrying and start living”  and other sources on internet for a blueprint to manages stress in 4 steps.

Stress is about change, it means adapting to the environment of a changing structure. Stress is a feeling triggered by the interpretation of an event. It’s a reaction related to the constraints and the pressure undergone in its environment. Stress can be interpreted as something positive, whether it’s considered a challenge or as something negative, if it’s considered a harmful event.

The truth is that stress is a mistake of reasoning in relation to the attitude or behavior we adopt. This is an answer that isn’t adequate. It’s an alert for mental dysfunction as the body gives us an alert for physical pain. Fortunately, people can learn to control stress in 4 steps : Take a step back and analyze what triggered the stress ; anticipate and visualize ; organize yourself and communicate and turn away or adapt and accept.

1st step – Take a step back and analyze

 

keep calm stress

 

It’s necessary to step back and analyze what triggered the stress. Because before trying to solve that, it’s important to know what caused it. By analyzing what caused the stress, we can avoid certain consequences.

To do that, here’s what you can do :

  • Make a list of sources of annoyance that you have in your family, friends, school, work, transportation, etc. Once you have found them, classify them from the most impacting to the least impacting. You can also do a 20/80 analysis, that means identify the 20% of the sources that bring you 80% of your stress.

  • Ask yourself these questions : « What is the problem ? What is the cause of this stress in these sources ? What are the most serious consequences that I suffer of my experience ? »

  • Understand the emotion that created in these moments. Then check if it’s a real fear or rather a theoretical concern that doesn’t have much to happen in your life.

If a situation is truly unavoidable, you need to prepare yourself to accept it. We must give up the impossible because it’s extremely stressful to have no way to change a situation. To avoid this, you need to anticipate situations that may lead you into an impasse. Once these situations identified, you must try to really avoid them or change the course of things from the start.

It’s impossible to keep control of all things in your life. It’s useless to set inaccessible goals.

2nd step – anticipate and visualize

 

anticipate visualize telescope

 

 

The best way to handle stress is to anticipate. Based on the list you made in the first step (source of stress), imagine solutions and possible answers. Ask yourself these questions : « Why did you agree to be in this situation ? ». If what you do make sense, it limits the stress.

Decide how you want to live a situation. An event that happens to you can have not effect on you until you choose words to qualify it. If you say that an event is happy, boring, sad or extraordinary, it can become so. By qualifying the event, you modify the perception that you have of this event.

The way you see the event determines your body’s reaction. So take a moment to think before judging and classyfying a situation as negative.

Take Olivier Roland’s example. When Olivier Roland began to meditate, his neighbor’s dog was barking. At first it disturbed Olivier to focus on his breathing, it was stressful and annoying. After a while, Olivier realized that it wasn’t the barking dog that was stressful, it was Olivier’s interpretation of the situation. From the moment that Olivier decided that the barking dog was something neutral or positive, he began to appreciate when the dog barks. It’s a sign of life.

Imagination can be used to help fight stress. Get in shape before a stressful event. You can create a positive state of mind when an event is negative. Think of something positive like music, a holiday, projects in progress. Visualize a happy moment, a happy memory.

This the end of Part 1. In the 2nd Part, I talk about organize yourself and communicate and turn away or adapt and accept.

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-Steph

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The Key To Have Success

key of success

I watched an Olivier Roland’s video  and I learned good stuff.

The key of success in any field is something everyone is looking for. I’ve been looking for this and I think you too.

There is a quote to find the key. It’s a quote from Sir William Olser , the father of modern medicine Here is his quote : «  The very first step towards success in any occupation is to become interested in it ».

I think you had the same reaction as me when you read the quote : « Yes, it’s obvious ». Yet if Sir William Olser said that, it was because he noticed that people around him didn’t follow this principle.

Be interested in

be interested in

Now look around you. I’m sure that in your friends group, there are people who want to earn more money or be rich ? Are these people really interested in knowing how to earn more money effectively ? In my case, I am the only one.

Oh another thing. I’m sure that in your friends group, there are people who want to be happy ? Are these people really interested in knowing how to be happy effectively ? In my case I am the one.

In my friends group, there are people who want to be happy and rich but that’s just words. And when I tell them what I found they, often, tell me they already knew that. So I ask them : «  What do you know about that ? But why you don’t do it ? ». I don’t explain you the answer, you already know that.

The truth is, if people don’t do something, it’s because they’re not really interested in that . Everyone has different goals.

Long-term investment

long-tern investment

To be really interested, it’s to ask yourself questions, to look for information, to meet people who have reached the goal, to read books that will help you reach the goal, to meet people who have not yet reached the goal but which are in the same movements as you, etc.

Here’s the question I ask you. This question is the first step to your success : « What do you want to accomplish in your life and are you interested enough in it to succeed ? ».

For exemple, if you want to become a successful author, you need to learn. You need to learn and practice regularly and for a long time. You need to read books where successful authors share their advice. You need to follow trainings with successful authors. You need to be part of a group of authors on Facebook, etc. With internet, there is so much resource that you have no excuses. Success is a long-term investment.

Take a few hours on a quiet weekend to really think about what you want to accomplish in your life. Very often, these are things your parents don’t like but if you’re really interested you’ll prove them wrong with your success. Don’t forget, success is a long-term investment.

I have a friend in prison and the last time I saw him, he said to me : «  You know Stephane, the best revenge in life is success ».

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-Steph

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Meet People In Shape

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I read a Nerd Fitness article  and I learned good stuff.

This has been scientifically proven that we look like the 5 friends we see most often. Think about your 5 best friends :

  • Are they successful ?

  • Are they happy ?

  • Are they healthy ?

  • Do they to exercices ?

When you see a friend’s group, they all have about the same state of mind. When a person of this group want to change, it becomes complicated. Once case that has all happened to us is that on the day we decided to work to be healthy, we were the only person in the group to do it.

And when you’re the only person who want to have a better health, it happens :

  • You decrease your consumption of sugar => your friends complain that you’re in a good physical condition and force you to go eat in a fast-food

  • You go to train at lunch => your classmates or co-workers make fun of you because you’re weird and force you to go eat at the best restaurant in the town.

  • You have a new pullup record => your friends complain that you didn’t come to the bar after school/work.

Don’t worry, these situations also happen to me. It’s hard to reach its goals when people around you want you stay like them. But be healthy is one of the best goal in the world and you aren’t the only person to know this pressure.

This is the moment, yes, it’s the moment to meet people who want to be healthy. Be surrounded by people who are healthier, stronger and faster than you is extremely motivating.

How to find people in shape

how to find people

Here are some tips :

  • Google

    Do a search like : « your activity + your town » and see results. It’s easy and effective. You want to do Tai-Chi, Taekwondo or badminton, you’ll find about 20 clubs in your town.

  • MeetUp

    It’s really cool. Do a search of your activity within 4-8km (3-5miles) of your town. You’ll find about twenty clubs. In 5 minutes, you subscribe on MeetUp.com  and you find 20 interesting clubs, easy !

  • Ask a person who is in a good shape that you see regulary

    This can be a classmate or a co-workers or on Facebook. You can start the conversation with : «  Hey, you’re in shape, what’s your secret ? ». This person will tell you his/her sport and his/her days of training.

    You need to do a training session with this person, even if you don’t like his/her sport. Imagine that during the training session you meet a person who share the same interests as you. You would never have met this person if you hadn’t done this new sport, right ? In the beginning, it’s important to say « yes » to have new contacts.

  • Think different

    Don’t be afraid to think differently to do different activities. There are clubs of soccer, dance, ice-hockey, yoga, etc. Chose something that interests you and give a try. If it’s an activity you’ve never done before, it’s even better. How can you know if you like something if you have never tried ? This is exploring, adventure.

Say « YES »

say yes

It’s important to say « yes » to everything when you do a new activity. Let’s me explain, all these activites have events with social media. Say « yes » to participate to these events to meet more people and have new opportunities or discover a new activity that is implanted in.

Now, I’ll tell you the truth. It’s important to say « yes » more often than « no » if you want that people continue to offer you new activities.

Imagie that you offer regularly to 2 of your friends to do new activities. Your 2 friends always answer the same thing and that’s it :

  • Friend A : « Ooooh no, I can’t today. I have a lot of things to do. Maybe another time ».

  • Friend B : « Mmmmmmmh, what is that ? Ok, we go there together of we find ourselves there ? »

After a while you’ll not propose anything to Friend A and you’ll only talk to Friend B. So for yourself, you want to be the Friend A or the Friend B ?

Go to a MeetUp alone

meetup

When you go to a MeetUp arrange you to go with somebody to stay motivated. But be careful, this often prenvents us from having new contacts. If it’s not possible, you need to be prepared to go to a MeetUp alone.

If you don’t usually go to events on your own, there are skills you can learn like confidence and social interaction.

Here a plan to have new conctacts during a MeetUp :

  • Smile

    This is the most crucial thing. Who like to talk to a scared person and who has a closed face ?

  • Don’t look for another person alone

    It’s easier to talk to a person alone than a group but there is a trap. This person is like you and is to shy to talk to someone else and you’ll spend the rest of the time to talk together in a corner without meeting anyone.

  • Make eye contact, give them a firm handshake and introduce yourself

  • Ask «  Are you here for the _______________ MeetUp ? »

    Continue the conversation with : «  Ok, cool. I signed up yesterday and I didn’t know what to expect ».

  • Ase open questions

    « What brought you here ? » or « Where are good places to do this activity in the city ? » or « Why did you start this activity ? »

  • If the conversation starts to be annoying

    Ends the conversation with : « Great to meet you. I’m gonna run to the bathroom/grab a dring ». You do the thing you said and you go to the another group.

Note

In a Meetup, you’re surrounded by people who want to meet people. Don’t do the anti-social and profit to have new contacts. Here a video  and an article  of Ramit Sethi to help to improve social skills.

Proactive

proactive

It’s not with magic or thniking very strongly (Mmmmh, The Secret ?!?) that you’re going to have new activites or meet new people in shape. It’s for this reason you need to do the first step because they are not going to come to seek you, it’s up to you to be the hunter.

It’s worth looking for them because they’ll help you reach your goals, encourage you to be healthier, be stronger and be faster.

Then goes hunting for people in shape

How it went when you joined a new club or met new friends when you decided to be healthier ?

-Steph

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Smartphone apps :

To track my calories, I use MyFitnessPal 

To track my training program, I use Jefit 

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New Generation Of Marketing

next new generation

I watched an Olivier Roland’s video  and I learned good stuff.

When I was a child and I watched a movie on TV, there were advertisements during the movie. When I watched these advertisements I never told myself : « Wow, it’s too cool, I’ll buy it right now », I told myself : « No, again ! » and I took my smartphone. I think you do the same thing.

Interruption marketing

interruption marketing

This kind of advertising that interrupts what you’re doing is called interruption marketing. I’m happy, this kind of marketing is dying. It was a type of marketing that worked well in the years 1950-60 with TV. It was the first time we wached advertisements with a visual, sound and music, it was impressive. This advertisements format allowed to have access to more people than a advertisements in text format.

This interruption marketing has been successful and others companies have used this method. There are so many advertisements everywhere that we can find that on a supermarket receipt. I watched a TV report clip where people were paid to have advertisements on their own cars (it’s not normal, really !).

We are so harassed by advertismements that our brain developed a filter so that we can live our lives quietly. It’s cool because the interruption marketing is less and less effective and companies noticed it.

Permission marketing

permission marketing seth godin

It’s for this reason there is a new generation of marketing, it’s the marketing of permission.

The concept is to ask the permission from a group of people to contact them with informations and advertisements that are in their interests. We know that this will potentially interst them and if they don’t care, they will not give us permission.

The concept of interruption marketing is to have access to a maximum of people as possible. The permission marketing is the opposite because people give us permission. The audience is more listening because the brain’s advertising filter is disabled, simply because the theme of advertisements they’re interested in.

Use the 21st century marketing. Here’s how I use it :

  • I publish articles on my blog that attracts a group of people (bodybuilding and internet business). I create content that interests my future clients. It’s cool because I know my future clients share the same passion and same values than me.

  • To go to the next step, I offer free additional bonuses like digital books (eBook), free complet training program (on my other website) and link to effective smartphone apps

  • To have acces to these additional bonuses, you need to subscribe to receive my newsletters (mailing list). When people subscribe to receive my newsletters, they give me permission to contact them.

  • When people receive my newsletters, they unsubscribe at any time. In each email there is a link to unsubscribe by clicking, it’s very easy.

As soon as people subscribed to my newsletters, I know that these people are interested in products/service that are complementary to bonuses they used.

Exemple

Take an exemple with a blog about cats. You have a blog about cats and when person subscribes to your newsletters that person receives a free digital book (eBook) « 5 tips to keep your cat healthy and long live ». You’ll learn 2 things about that person who subscrided to your newsletters :

  1. This person is interestd in cats

  2. It’s possible that this person has a cat or wants to have a cat

It’s a specially targeted audience. Now, you know that this person will be interested by a book, a training or a physical product that will help this person to have a cat happy and healthy.

With this method, there is a audience’s screening. You don’t lose you time to try to sell your products/services to a person who is totally disinterested in what you do.

Fanbase

fanbase

This concept is perfect to build a group of people who are of what you do. This means that you build a fan-based internet company or based on a tribe.

I advise you to read this Seth Godin’s books about it.

This has nothing to do with interruption marketing that based on client’s amount. With permission marketing, there is a better profitability and a better human relationship. With this concept, we feel like helping friends because the entrepreneur and its audience share the same passion and same values.

The entrepreneur help its audience to accomplish a goal he/she has already achieved or the entrepreneur want accomplish a goal and its audience witnessed its evolution. Usually entrepreneurs do both. It’s obvious that it’s not possible to know all people of an audience but it’s easy to communicate with them. If there is a Meetup or a meeting with the community, everybody will be able to talk about cats for hours and it’s great to meet passionate people.

Marketing

Permission marketing works with everything. Interruption marketing will work for long time because campanies are putting a all lot of money into it.

Internet companies and startups therefore 21st century companies need to use permission marketing to adapt to the industrial revolution.

-Steph

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Smartphone apps :

To track my calories, I use MyFitnessPal 

To track my training program, I use Jefit 

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