I want to share something important with you that I noticed with my friends.
I don’t want people to think that I tell myself : « Wow, I’m a genius, people follow my advice ! » Because I’m not. I’m like you. There are things that I learned in my life, I internalized and I try to use them in my life. And things that I have received that are good, I share them because other people have done this with me.
Often in your life, people tell you what you have to do and they do it to help you to make decisions, but sometimes you have to follow your instincts. Following your instincts can you make mistakes. Often you have to make mistakes to learn in the hard way and it’s by making mistakes that you improve your instinct. You always learn something from your mistakes.
There is something I see as an undeniable fact, it’s that nothing happens by coincidence, no matter whether good or bad, you have attracted them in your life. We are a direct demonstration of our thoughts. It’s like when you think of a friend you haven’t seen for a long time and a few days after you see him/her or someone speaks of him/her. When you see a person who is successful in life, it’s that this person wanted so much that it came true.
You can pray or wish to have something, that’s cool, you put that thought in your head (work, home, money, girlfriend, etc.) but just feel like it is done is not enough. This is just the first step then you must act. Once you have the opportunity to realize your wish, do it. Think about your desire every day and think about how you can achieve it. Write it, read books, studied so that your wish comes true in your life.
I like being around people who take care of me. You take care of me, I take care of you, you don’t take care of me, I don’t take care of you. This is the person I am, you give 100% to me, I give you 200%. Being a winner is also good to be well surround because you’re not only a winner in sport, it’s in life in general. You’re the only person to define your success. There are people who earn millions and are unhappy. And there are people who have 1 million and are happy.
One thing I do to be a strong man is to train my mind as I train my body. A day has 24 hours, one hour is sufficient to train your body, it’s the same thing for your state of mind. Take 1 hour to read something to develop your mind. Being strong in the sport is good, but being strong in mind is great !
Sometimes when I’m tired, I have a trick, I take an audio book is more practical. You see, build your state of mind, reading books or magazines that teach you things in an area that interests you, something than sports. If you want to be a complete person, you must be obsessed with somethings other than sport. Anyway, who chose but I know that to be successful in life, be only obsessed with sport is not enough.
I know you’ve seen it, there are people who have a good physique but all day they speak of only one thing: « How to develop the body, arms, legs, etc. ». This is not an interesting topic for the majority of people on the planet and I know you don’t want to be that type of person, me too. Just have and maintain a good physique isn’t a solid foundation for a successful life.
Do a training program and track your progress to exceed your limits, allows you to do the same process in other areas of your life. You want to be a better friend ? You want to be best in your studies or your work ? This process is perfect to give you challenges and take problems as challenges.
When you you’re interested in something other than sports, you improve your knowledge and knowledge is the retention of information. From the moment that you really understand something, you can apply it in your life and explain it to others to help them to understand. You can give back to the people to improve their lives because you make a transfer of knowledge. This can be any knowledge as the origin of musical styles, It’s cool, many people are interested by this topic.
What I say is true for girls. You can have a beautiful physique, a beautiful face but if your head and your heart are empty, you’ll be sad in your life. Ok, there are boys who like this kind of girls but you know that these situations never lasts long. People want a deep intimate interaction, a greater thing than the physical.
There is a time, I read a lot of books but now I can’t explain some books I read. Now I take my time to read a book, I want to understand the definition of each word. It takes longer, but it works the brain to understand this new knowledge. Throughout your life, your brain learns new things when you stimulates it. If you don’t do it, your brain become weak. You can play games such as crossword puzzles or chess to exercise your brain. Stimulates your brain and train your state of mind as you train your body, it’s simple.
Be like an average persone isn’t motivating, it’s not acceptable. Don’t be like an average person is much more interesting and that much more valuable. Yes it takes a lot of effort but it’s better than having just enough to pay bills and hangout with friends. To achieve that, you have to give the best of yourself in every things you do, do it really well. Whether you like or not your studies or your work, by this way you will create opportunities. Be an average person don’t create exceptional opportunities.
Don’t accept that your friends are happy to be like everyone else because this is not an environment that pushes you to give the best of yourself, find other friends. My friends are people who do everything to be better everydays and it’s super motivating. It wasn’t easy to find them but now that I have, my life has changed dramatically for the better.
Enjoy life. I am a very serious person but for those who know me when I decided to make party, I put me in the « idiot » mode and we laugh a lot. We have one life and we must also know how to decompresse. All I’m doing isn’t to make my life difficult but getting somethings easily, I’ll lose them easily. By getting somethings difficult, I keep them, tihis is life gains.
I love my life and people feel it. I’m proud of what I have because it was difficult to get them. When you work hard, the fruit of your work is extraordinary. I have a great life but it comes from hard work. It was never ever good or positive, I often had to struggle, I have often struggle to create a solid foundation and it’s not over.
You work hard now and you enjoy after. I work hard, I have no social life, it’s my choice, but when you work hard, you benefit more out of life.
You have one life takes pleasure in your life with solid people. You don’t want to be with people that attract problems, people who take everything you got, you want to be in a relationship of exchange with people. We all have different qualities and personalities but when a person takes everything you have and abuse, this is not a good situation. Be surrounded by productive and smart people. Be surrounded by people you admire.
This is what I advise you but it’s your choice to follow or not. I wish you to have the best life you can have.